3 Questions to Answer When Getting Back With Your Ex

Breaking up with your partner is not an easy task and if your relationship has reached this point there are some problems that you have not found solutions to.  Getting back with your ex may seem like a good idea, but you need to carefully consider this.  You may be feeling confused and lonely when you decide that things need to be the way they were.  However, getting back together with an ex you fought with may not be the best idea because there may be no changes to your relationship.

Where Do You Leave The Past?

This is the first question that you should be asking yourself and you need to take your time with the answer.  You may feel that you will agree to anything to get your ex back, buy are you ready to really leave the past in the past?  You may have gone through a painful breakup which left you feeling miserable and will have to bury the hatchet before moving on.  If you are unable to do this, everything that was wrong in your relationship will still be wrong and you will only face the same painful breakup in the future.

Are They Telling The Truth?

When trust is lost in a relationship it can be very hard to win it back.  If you feel that your ex does not tell you the whole truth, you need to be upfront about this.  You should tell them why you do not believe them, but ensure that this is done in a positive way to help them open up to you.  This is one of the most complicated tasks you need to complete to repair a broken relationship.  You will need to put the time and effort into this if you want the relationship to work this time.

Are Your Feelings one-Sided?

It is important that you take the time to find an honest answer to this question.  You know how you feel about your ex, but you need to ensure that they feel the same about you.  If you are putting everything into making the relationship work and they are not, it is much easier for them to walk away again when something bad happens.  If your feelings are not completely returned you need to carefully consider if getting back together is the right solution.

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